It’s quite
fascinating how we jump from one relationship to another, only dogs move from
"puppy to puppy," we have become so confused as humans, as if we are
in "heat." One of the greatest sources of frustration, joy and pain
is Love and Relationships.
Living
together as singles has become a norm in our society, forgetting that singles
who co-habits not under holy matrimony, is a time bomb waiting to explode. It’s
no doubt that Stress is the number one cause of diseases. There is nothing more
stressful than going home to more stress in a co-habitation state: intimacy
without commitment, having babies who you aren’t ready to bring up, no trust, but,
you want love. We can’t go any further until we begin to get it right with
God's principles in relationships.
Most people
wonder why they are full of hurt, pain and hatred, it’s simply because you gave
someone your Mind, Body and Time under a common law with no Commitment, no Love
and no Dedication.
Dr. Myles “If sex is love, no one has more love than a prostitute."
Marriage is designed to meet the needs of the human Spirit,
such as mutual respect, belonging, and importance. The key to all
inter-personal relationships is the quality of your intra-personal
relationships. "If you don't like YOU (put your name), then you cannot love
me!" The foundation for loving
others is to first love yourself.
Build your self-worth, self-esteem and self-value.
You are your own sun. Your spouse is their own sun, so when the two of you get
together, you can then create a constellation. You are not a half or better
half individual, you are a full person with great uniqueness and purpose.
Singleness
is the most important state of human development. Singleness is the foundation
of God's design for the human family. You can’t afford to compromise your
single state.
Dr. Myles, "Diamonds are never found on top of the ground, just rock. If they're easy to find, RUN."
This explains why it’s written in the Bible “he who finds a wife, finds a good thing.” You are a GOOOOOOOOOD
thing to a man Girl and a Diamond to be searched and found, stop looking down on
yourself. God designed every individual to be developed first and to have a
complete total wholeness.
Lastly, because everyone is doing it doesn't make it right, the danger of it all is that, you will end up hurting yourself and loose great opportunities to achieving success.
Life is for
the living, make right choices.
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